Therapeutic Fibbing & Diversion

Strategies for Handling Dementia Symptoms
When a person with dementia is experiencing a delusion, hallucination,
or catastrophic reaction or cannot comprehend the reality of a situation,
a caregiver may use therapeutic fibbing and diversion to avoid causing
further undue anxiety.
Dementia often blurs the line between perception and reality, causing
concern, stress, and frustration. If dad’s driver’s license
has been taken away, he may have many emotionally charged reactions. He
may not understand why, or simply may not accept it. Therefore, when he
goes to drive to the store, what are you (the family caregiver) to do?
You can help by reassuring him or by redirecting his focus. For instance,
you could tell him you were on the way to the store and offer for the
two of you to go together, or tell him that you’ll go to the store
after lunch. This tactic is referred to as diversion.
Another tactic used in dementia care is therapeutic fibbing. Often, the
best way to help a person experiencing anxiety is to not argue with their
reality, and even meet them there, far from your own reality. When dad
wants to drive to the store, you may tell dad that his car is in the shop
and he can go shopping once it’s finished. Trying to argue the reality
of a person with dementia is like holding a book in your hand and insisting
it’s an apple; it will only frighten and confuse your loved one more.
Most importantly, if your loved one is very upset, it’s better to
back off and allow him or her time to calm down before attempting any
other activity or conversation. Remember: Never scold, correct, argue,
or attempt to reason with a person with dementia. These responses are
counterproductive and hurt relationships. Have compassion and remember
that this certainly isn’t what your dad thought his retirement or
golden years would bring.
Contact Homewatch CareGivers® today for more information about coping strategies or our caregiving services.