Holidays & Traditions
Dementia Care Experts Can Help Patients Find Joy during Every Season
Your loved one living with dementia may have formerly been the cornerstone
of family holidays and traditions. In order to cope with the changing
family dynamics and still celebrate special times, sculpt new traditions
and activities that include the old and familiar while adjusting to your
loved one’s new needs.
Shop from home. Shopping, while often a large part of the season, will most likely bring undue stress to both the person living with dementia and the family caregiver. Avoid the sensory overload, large crowds, and confusing environment by shopping online or through a catalog with your loved one. They can still choose gifts for the family but will be able to do so in the comfort and safety of their own home.
Create a new take on old traditions. Holiday family outings, such as outdoor ice skating, carolling, or seeing “The Nutcracker” at a local playhouse, hold fond memories but may not be feasible in the wake of dementia. Revamp these holiday traditions by taking a snowy-day walk, lighting a fire, and listening to Christmas music, or finding a version of “The Nutcracker” on DVD for family movie night. Time spent with family is the most important thing during holidays—the ice skating, carolling and theatre are simply activities.
Remember a few of your favourite things. While it may seem like this year is going to be different than all the rest, it’s important (for both the caregiver and the person with dementia) to reminisce about holidays past. Take the time during a holiday family get-together to share photos from previous celebrations, to recall funny family bloopers, and to engage in activities that your loved one is still able to, like decorating the Christmas tree or helping bake holiday treats.
As you’re adjusting to how things will be this holiday season (and those to come)—instead of how things once were—it’s important to remember the good and to hold onto joyful past memories in the wake of holiday stress. Focusing on the positive, rather than becoming overwhelmed by the negative, will not only help you cope and celebrate, but also encourage your loved one to enjoy such a special time, and to be at peace.
Holidays and traditions can be much more enjoyable with you consider the advice of our dementia care team. Contact Homewatch CareGivers® today for more information.